Feb 222009

Here are our top 10 alpha male traits – these alpha male characteristics are common to all natural leaders, and naturally confident men. If you want to follow in their footsteps then see which of these traits you lack and adjust your behaviour accordingly; The Alpha Male:

Never Qualifies Himself: The alpha male makes no apologies, he doesn’t explain his behavior. he is completely comfortable in his own skin so he doesn’t need to. They don’t boast about their success or try and prove anything – again they don’t need to; they assume you will like them simply because other people do, but they don’t care if you don’t – they won’t chase after you for your validation, they don’t care.

Talks Slow: Notice when you talk to someone you look up to you will talk faster – Talking fast is a way to qualify yourself to someone – essentially you are scared they will stop listening or find some more interesting stimulous, so you get your point out quick so they will listen – it actually has the opposite effect, and it shows your lower status.

Doesn’t Look Around: He is the party and the focus of attention – he is unconcerned with what other people are doing.

Is The Focus of Attention: He is centrally positioned in the group, everyones body language faces him and is positive towards him – you can tell the alpha male of the group just by looking at them. Expect to be the focus and position yourself to be so, step up within your group and you will start to take on this dominant role.

Take The Glory: When you tell a funny joke they take it one further and steal the laugh, when you do something cool they congratualte  you for it and give you their approval. When you have an idea they acknowledge it and add to it – giving their approval and tweaking the idea it becomes their own, and they get the credit for it.

Are Never Impressed: They can be self centered and unimpressed with the achievements of others. They are high achievers themselves and strive for success so they have seen it all before – it takes a lot, or a really high value to impress them – they have high standards on every level.

Enjoy a Challenge: They enjoy making friends with beta males, but with another alpha guy they often become “enemies”. The alpha male needs to be the alpha at all times and will compete with another male for the dominant position – if he is really the alpha male he will enjoy this opportunity.

Don’t Answer Questions: They often give a non-sensical or a basic response to questions you ask them where you are trying for conversation, trying to find common ground, or trying for report – by asking you to “guess” they are controling the frame and leading the interaction and keeping their alpha male status.

Don’t Care About You: they are self focused, you are there to entertain them, but they are above you – he believes world evolves around him and everyone is there to help him, entertain him or sleep with him – as he chooses.

Can Show A Nicer Side and Get Away With It: This goes back to not caring what people think. he can be nice / genuine / down to earth if he wants to and on the occasions that he is he gets even more credit for it – he isn’t a geek trying to be nice for validation, he is a cool guy who has a down to earth side sometimes.

Is Comfortable In His Own Skin: Ultimately he is comfortable within his own skin, this is one of the the main alpha male characteristics, and if you can be comfortable in your own skin then everything else will follow. He doesn’t care what people think, he is assertive enough to give his own opinion, and he is happy and confident in any situation.

This article on alpha male traits was brought to you by Real Subliminal – try our Become the Alpha Male album today – this is not a miracle cure, but it will gradually rewire your mind to take on the characteristics of the alpha male, you will start to believe in the messages more and more and eventually you too will be a dominant alpha male.

Jan 272009

a confident handshake

Improve Your Posture

People with no confidence can be spotted a mile off due to the way they carry themselves – they have no sense of self importance.

Make sure you carry yourself properly and you will feel 100x more confident, and people will notice too!

Walk Like You’re Confident

People who are confident walk faster and more energetically: they feel important enough that their time is precious – they hurry from place to place. They have people to meet, places to go to and  a full agenda.

Even if you aren’t really in a rush adding a little pace to your walking will make you feel more purposeful and keep you thinking fast and on your toes.

Advertise Yourself

Confident people are not afraid to tell you about their achievements – there is a difference between being proud of your acomplishments and boasting so don’t over do it, but confident people live for success and are reward themselves for it – Don’t be afraid to sing about your successes either.<>/p

Be Grateful

Always focus on what have, the positive sides of your life, your skills, and the things you are good at. This is a simple form of positive thinking, and it will help you to advance towards even more of the same rather than dwelling on your negatives.

Compliment Others

Never engage in badmouthing other people – confident people don’t need to criticise other people to make themselves look good – a truly confident person can compliment other people and still shine. Also when you look for the good in others, you’ll gradually be able to see the good points in yourself too.

Speak Up

Project your voice and make yourself heard – confident people like the sound of their voice and they are not shy from voicing their opinion for other people to hear.


Work out a few times a week – you will have more energy and you will feel better about yourself – you will feel good and look good and have a higher sense of self pride.

Subliminal Messaging

This article was brought to you by Real Subliminal – so here’s the “advert” 😛 In truth subliminal messages are not a miracle cure but they will give you a boost and help to remove some negative deep held beliefs you are harboring.

Try our improve confidence subliminal cd here.

Jan 262009

Since our new albums launched the other day we have been getting a lot of questions about our new millionaire mindset subliminal album.

We want to make it clear that we can’t guarantee that this album will make you a million dollars, and it certainly won’t bring money into your life without any hard work or effort required on your part.

It is a simple concept, it aims to give you the mindset of a millionaire – you may still be skeptical, but any group of people who share circumstances will also have common beliefs, values, and ways of thinking. For example, school teachers might all share the desire to help others, chefs will have a deep love for food, and poker players will share an enjoyment of risk…

Millionaires in the same way will have certain characteristics in common, which have in fact helped them to make their money – they will not share all of the characteristics, all of the time, but certain charastics are found time and time again:

  • Not taking no for an answer
  • Strong self belief
  • Enjoyment of taking a risk
  • A deep desire to make money

Our album works by eliminating negative beliefs and thoughts within your subconscious mind and replaces them with the sort of characteristics shared by millionaires – it therefore gives you a millionaire mindset – the positive character traits which have helped a lot of people make a lot of money.

So we can’t make you rich without any effort required by you, but with this new mindset you will be working in the right direction, and if you really apply yourself then the money will follow.

Jan 152009


Visualization is an amazing tool you can use to reach your goals, and it goes hand in hand with subliminal messaging.

Some of the most powerful people in the world have used visualization to accomplish their goals – they set themselves a goal and visualize themselves over and over again in their end position of accomplishing the goal.

“I have already won Wimbledon at least 10,000 times” (Andre Agassi – Wimbledon Tennis Champion)

The above quote from Andre Agassi highlights how he used visualization with amazing result – he went on to say that when he actually won Wimbledon for real it wasn’t an overpowering feeling of success – “it just felt right – it felt like something I was rightly meant to do”. Such is the power of visualization it made this amazing accomplishment feel normal to Agassi, and is probably one of the ways he managed to stay cool and stay sharp under pressure and reach this goal.

Visualization is a key part of any sports persons training – especially with runners -they are known to visualize running the race 100s of times in their heads before a big event, and see themselves crossing the finish line in first place. But it can be used for anything – goals in your personal life, financial endeavors, and business plans

Regular visualization helps the mind to live the experience before you really do, you will of done the act 100s of times in your mind first and when it comes to the real thing your nerves will be calm, and you will know the process inside out – even basic amount of visualization will keep you focussed on your goal and keep you working towards it.

Subliminal cds work great with visualization – they work in a simlar way; both methods align your subconscious mind for the success you are seeking consciously.

Stay tuned tomorrow as wehave an article for you with 5 visualization tips to help you to get the most from your visualization!

Jan 082009

new-year-fireworksIt is the 8th of January, I hope you have managed to keep your resolutions so far, but apparantly 95% of all resolutions are broken within 2 weeks of setting them, so here are 7 handy tips to help you stick to yours!

1. Write them down

If you haven’t already actually written them down then do so now – writing them down helps to make them real

2. Put them where you can see them

Following on, now pin your written list where you will see it regularly – on top of your computer monitor, on your fridge, on your bedside table etc – this helps to drill in your resolution and make sure your good intentions are on your mind regularly.

3. List the Benefits of sticking to them

Listing the positives you will gain from sticking to your resolutions will help you to stay motivated and focused.

4. Tell people

Telling people makes them more real, and it makes you accountable – you have a challenge to live up to.

5. Reward yourself

If your resolution is to lose weight then obviously don’t go and eat a full box of chocolates 🙂 But make sure you reward yourself at key milestones – whether it be 3 days, a week, two weeks, a month etc – reward yourself in a way which doesn’t contradict your resolution. We are more motivated by rewards and encouragement than by criticism or fear, so have a positive reward you can look forward to.

6. Break your goal down

If it is a big goal it might be easier to break it down into more managable chunks – this makes it seem more achievable. For example losing 3 stones of weight may take a long time, but if you set smaller weekly goals then you will accomplish them easier, and feel good and move on to the next goal, and eventually all your weekly goals will add up – before you know it you will of lost all the weight.

7. Visualize!

FInally, this will really help you – don’t just make your goal, but really spend some time visualizing the new you – whether you are breathing clean air and feeling healthy from not smoking, or you have a slimmer waistline, whatever your goal create a clear picture of yourself living the final outcome – this will help to “trick” your mind into thinking it has already happened, and if you do this regularly it will seem much more possible.

These tips were brought to you by Real Subliminal – from now until the 11th of January we are giving away a free album, specifically designed to help you stick to your new years resolutions!